The Easy Way or the Hard Way?


Many would not think of my mother as the mountaineer type. Yet you may be surprised to find out that she conquered the tallest peak with the worst weather in the northeastern United States. Books have been written about those who have perished trying to climb this mountain. Until rece
ntly, this infamous peak was the location of the all time highest wind velocity ever recorded on the surface of the earth, 231 mph! That’s right, we’re talkin’ Mt. Washington.

As part of annual summer vacation in New Hampshire, my father would plan outings for the family. For the record, I don’t think we got to vote on the proposed outings. This particular summer he decided it was time for the family to climb Mt. Washington. Being the considerate type, he planned that Mom would ride the Cog Railway up, and Anne, he and I would meet her at the summit.


On the appointed day, we arrived at the Cog Railway station at the bottom of the mountain. Pictures in brochures of the time didn’t do the Cog Railway justice. The engine looked like it was 100 years old (it probably was!), the passenger cars were open and made mostly of wood and when you turned your eye up the mountain to follow the track on its upward course you quickly wondered, cog or not, whether this poor little train would make it. I kind of remember reading sometime later that the Cog Railway didn’t have a perfect safety record as one or two accidents have become part of local legend. I think they may still be looking for remains.



While memories have faded and details have been lost, I remember a sidebar conversation between Mom and Dad that went something like this:

“ Jack if you think I’m getting on that thing you’re out of your mind!”

or words to that effect. So Dad tried to convince Mom that it was safe, but Mom was resolute. She wasn’t getting on that black smoke spark belching dilapidated excuse for a death trap.


When it was settled Mom was not riding up the mountain, I guess Anne and I thought Mom would head back to Squam for a couple of days of rest and relaxation. Perhaps it was just me, but I was surprised to hear Mom say she was going up the old fashion way, on foot.



Four hours later we arrived at the summit, 6228 feet above sea level, and Mom was right there with us a little worse for the wear.

I was very impressed with my Mom and told all of my friends at home that my Mother climbed Mt. Washington!

John 2009

Family









Pigs Pigs Pigs


I don't know how or when the connection with Grammy and Pigs began, but for as long as I can remember she has been surrounded by them.


Every Christmas everyone would
search for the perfect new pig to give Grammy. There were pig paintings, pig cookie jars, pig clocks, pig statues, and so many more. Anything that could be found in pig form, Grammy has it, except for the real living thing.




I remember visiting Grammy and Bapa in Maine, and embarking on a journey throughout the house to count all of the Grammy's pigs and there were well over a hundred.





Of all the pigs Grammy had my favorite was the ever so tasteful Biker Pig that sits in the kitchen at camp.

Carrie 2009

Polly





Grammy is the definition of what a Grandmother should be. She is kind and caring and willing to do anything to put a smile on your face.

She acts like you are the greatest thing in the world and it really warms your heart. She supports you in the best of times and the worst of the times.







Just picture this, its a cold windy day on the shore of Lake Winnipesaukee and there is a soccer game being played. It was Holderness vs. Brewster and there were only a few Holderness fans, two of which were Grammy and Bapa.






They drove all the way from Maine that day to watch me play in the goal and all I remember was Grammy standing on the sidelines cheering as though I was the best goalie in the world.

She stood on the side of the hill and as I made one save she just couldn't help shouting out,

" That's my granddaughter!"
It has always been great having someone cheering for you on the sidelines.

Thanks for all your support Grammy

Happy 80th, Polly

JoJo the Eskimo



Hail to the birthday "girl

Hope you are having a great day...as I have said before can't believe we have made it this far..hale & hearty..its those wonderful genes we share along with all those wonderful memories we have of growing up together from childhood to adult(hood).






All those shared giggles at Norway Bay...reading by flashlight in our bunks and smoking out in the field while becoming "ladies" at Ont. Ladies College (yes kids that's what it was called) and then WOW finally breaking out at Endicott..lots of good dates AND bad dates..and oh yes some education in between..ending up with you meeting Jack and me Vern and then family took over.


Now here we are full circle.."Grannies"...I hope our grand kids will remember us with as much fon
dness & wonderful memories as we do of our shared Gramma...Looking forward to June and seeing you all again. Can you imagine our 60th reunion at EJC as if turning 80 wasn't trauma enough!!!


All my Love..and Vern's too...Joyce or JoJo the Eskimo as I was known at EJC...yikes!!

John



Mom,

Thank you for all your love. There's never been a better Mom and I am truly blessed. You have always been there me and my family.

You have a way of setting me straight and showing me the light. You knew when to apply tough love and when to be sympathetic. You should have been a psychologist (just kidding). I owe you everything.

I miss you and Nancy, Carrie and Polly and I wish you a very Happy 80th Birthday.

John 2009

Family











Bathing Beauty

Carrie

Grammy is the quiet force that keeps the Evans family together. There are many things that come to my mind when I think of Grammy, mostly her patience, and the amount of love she gives to our family.


Grammy is the one you go to when you need to find a recipe, or when you want to redecorate, or when you want a family story told.





She is the family historian and advice giver. She always has a smile on her face, and exudes positive energy.



As a grandmother, Grammy is amazing. She gives the best advice, and she is always great to talk to, and she is always supportive.


She is the glue that holds our family together.

I Love you Grammy, Happy 80th Birthday!

Carrie 2009

58 years







Jack


Most of all, when I think of my Grandmother
I think of unconditional, unqualified, and unlimited
Her love for me
But First
My love for her

Chickens



For many many years Jack and Noreen have been creatively (read hilariously) trading a rubber chicken back and forth with George and Mary Jo. I think George and Mary Jo outdid themselves this year.




Dear Noreen and Jack,

To bring you up to date:

For many months Chicken and his girl friend Heney have been living happily together enjoying the California sunshine. During this time they produced a child, Clucky (who unfortunately is a midget).


Her parents felt no need to get married until Clucky announced that she was pregnant. Recently in a quiet ceremony in San Francisco Chicken and Heney were married and at this point decided that they should re-enter our lives.




We send them to you as they have expressed the wish that their grandchild be reared in Maine. If you press on Clucky's stomach you can see the grandchild in utero. It is a very exciting time for this fowl family.

Love,
George and MaryJo




Jack and Noreen sent this photo of the happy family now settled in Maine



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Biography Jack & Noreen


Jack was born in Lancaster, PA, where he lived until moving to NYC to begin his career in banking. Jack graduated from The Lawrenceville School in Lawrenceville, NJ and Wesleyan University with graduate studies at NYU, Wisconsin and Harvard Business Schools.

Noreen was born in Grosse Pointe, Michigan, where she lived until she was 14 and moved with her family to Bronxville, NY. After attending preparatory school in Canada, Noreen graduated from Endicott College.

It was during Jack's senior year at prep school that the two met and went to his senior prom together.

Five years later, they were married while Jack was on active duty with the US Air Force. After discharge from active duty, Jack rejoined the Hanover Bank. The Evans then lived briefly in NYC before moving to Cold Spring Harbor on the North Shore of Long Island, where they resided until Jack's retirement in 1988. Three children - two girls and a boy - came along and are part of a close-knit family.



Jack's entire career was spent with the Hanover Bank and it's successors. He retired as Vice-Chairman of Manufacturers Hanover, now part of J.P.Morgan Chase. His non-bank activities included: Trustee, Depository Trust Co.; Trustee National Genetics Foundation; financial responsibilities at the diocesan and parish levels, Long Island Episcopal Church; Trustee Huntington Hospital, NY; Trustee Sons of the Revolution, NY; Director of the Computer Museum, Boston.





Noreen, in addition to raising "three great children", became involved with the Junior League, Planned Parenthood, the Garden Club, and Holiday House (Herald Tribune Fresh Air Camp).

In 1990 they moved to Yarmouth, ME where they built a house on the Royal River. Jack became involved in a number of pro-bono institutions including: Trustee/Interim Director, Portland Museum of Art; Trustee/Interim Director, Victoria Mansion; a Founder, President, and CEO of Maine Life Care Inc.; Trustee, Greater Portland Landmarks; Corporator, Maine Medical. He is currently serving as a trustee of Southern Maine Agency on Aging.

Summers are spent with friends, children, and grandchildren at their family camp on Squam Lake, NH. Traveling, sailing, OLLI, and "wood butchering" (woodworking!) around out the picture.

KC


Happy 80th Birthday Gram!

I am glad I have been around for 24 of your 80 years. I hope I inherited your lasting beauty and am riding camels when I am 80.

Hope to see you during my spring break.


Lots of love,


KC

Reenie

Happy 80th Reenie

I thought I had burned you out years ago as my great shrink who listened very patiently to my BS like "there are no women in NYC "!

Wishing you many more!

Love,
Bill

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